A man at the World Fantasy Convention made several women incredibly uncomfortable by a) inappropriate comments made towards them, b) groping or touching them inappropriately, and/or c) blatantly disregarding their complaints and the complaints of others who had witnessed his behavior.To start, we should probably get a few things out of the way:
- The man in question is most likely mentally ill, as comments he made about his magical abilities seem, in my mind, to extend well beyond typical masculine bravado about one's prowess with the opposite sex.
- Being mentally ill doesn't excuse bad behavior.
- Conventions in our community must have a clear, printed, and official policy and procedure for dealing with any instance of harassment, sexual or otherwise.
#3, to me, is non-negotiable. The incidents discussed by Stina Leicht, Alisa Krasnostein, and others are not unique to World Fantasy Convention. These things happen at conventions all around the country (and elsewhere). They may not occur in the same form, but they happen nonetheless.
We are not immune to sexual harassment in our genre community, and at no point can we pretend that perverts, the mentally ill, the socially inept, the socially insensitive, and so on don't exist or won't exist. This all makes me feel like the problem has never been adequately addressed. That can't continue.
With that in mind, I think what we need most is a procedure for dealing with harassment that can be adopted at conventions, placed in program books, and made publicly accessible to convention attendees. Part of that will hopefully discourage people from engaging in inappropriate behavior, but it won't do much to those who, quite frankly, have never been properly punished for their conduct.
I don't know if I am qualified to provide a set of procedures, but I'm going to give it a shot anyway. Folks are more than welcome to contribute to improving these guidelines. If anyone is a lawyer or knows sexual harassment law, it would be great to get your input.
A Guide to Harassment at Conventions -- For Convention "Staff"
- Convention staff should be briefed on how to deal with potential harassment reports, and should be provided relevant phone numbers, information on where to find security personnel, and other relevant information.
- Convention staff should have a "group" designated to maintain a "database" of complaints. They should be easily locate-able (such as at a general information desk), should take down relevant information about the alleged offender and the alleged victim, and should follow the procedures listed below as necessary.
- Convention staff should assess the severity of an incident before deciding on a course of action.
Convention Procedures for Harassment -- For Anyone
- Actions should be divided, broadly speaking, into the following: notification, warning, temporary removal, permanent removal, and ban. These can be explained as follows:
- Notification: telling an individual that their behavior is inappropriate (either by the convention staff or the victim)
- Warning: telling the offender that continued behavior will not be tolerated
- Temporary removal: a stern version of a warning, in which the offender is asked or made to leave an area
- Permanent removal: the offender is removed from the convention grounds or arrested
- Ban: the offender is permanently removed from the convention and all future conventions.
To be fair, all of the above procedures are poorly constructed. I don't know how to put these things together. How do you know when to issue a warning or when to talk to the offender? How do you know when something is serious enough to deal with immediately (with authority figures present)? Is there a way for convention staff to easily assess the accuracy of reports? I don't know the answers to these questions. But we still have to have this discussion. Not next month. Not next convention. Now.
*I'll use myself as an example. It is likely that I have said or done something that another person deemed as harassment. It's just as likely that I have sexually harassed someone without meaning to. I think a lot of people don't intend to harass someone, but intention is rarely relevant in cases of sexual harassment. And if I'm am guilty of such behavior (I've never groped anyone, just to be clear), I sincerely apologize. The point is that even well-meaning people can be guilty of bad behavior.